Posts: 1873. but they just made it private. It doesn't necessarily have to do with verbal flattery but the presentation, image or interaction boosts the House. I'm not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. On the second day of this happening, he told me that it was weird because he was going through the same thing because of a blood sugar problem where his blood sugar was going too low. I believe it caused a lot of confusing both for him n I. You have to distract yourself in as many ways as possible, do other things, meet other people. I don't know where my venus falls in his chart. It may not display this or other websites correctly. Possibly. I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. These are unconscious impulses as well as the forbidden desires at least tried to suppress. Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. Venus in Twelfth House Natal Meaning in Astrology - Astrology the Venus person is allured into the partner's magical 12th house and held a dear captive there, but in NO way the Venus person would admit (willingly) that they have such strong feelings of love and adoration for the 12th house person. Hi Aida! That said, I do know something about this. But as his Sun is caught up in my 12th House, he now and then tries to make an appearance. The 12th house is karmic for both for good or not so good both come through this house.:). Conjunct Venus' are often found in long term relationships. Venus is the planet of love which makes him lovable by his likable behavior and persuasive way of talking. i guess if the house person is non-scorpionic, or less-scorpionic perhaps, they won't run away scared because they feel they are exposed, lol If the house person is heavy-scorpio people, hmm don't even think aboutt having relationship with this peeps, they will ruuuuunnnn away asap no matter how much you mean to them. His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! Im stuck. i have a guy who i'm so into him , he have his sun, venus, mercury and jupiter in gemini on my 12th house. My Neptune is in my 10th house in Scorpio and since I guess I'm what they would call a "Pluto person" since I have so many (5) planets in my 8th house, maybe that would mean something? The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. You need some fire. A Venus in the 12th House man is a sweet, gentle, kind of person who likes to help both people and animals. Love Synastry: Venus in the Houses - Crystal Life Coach He turned out to be one dark character and a real piece of work, and it took me nearly 3 years with all SORTS of ups and downs, bumps and bruises, to get over him so that I could outs him from my spirit. He never forgot and it almost feels like he is watching me closely on social media. We exist in very different worlds and it just is not convenient to tell him. He was everything I wanted from a man, he broke all my barriers, and he was what I want to become as we run in more or less same line of business. I couldn't forget him until now. The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. We have opposite rising signs. No WONDER I cant get it on for long with my Gemini partners . You can hide things from eachother and it can make you feel vulnerable or weary, so it's not a house for everyone. Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. With the negative aspect, the "Plutonian" personality can show jealousy and possessive tendencies toward the "Venusian" one, trying . And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. Generally when venus is other persons 12th house, its effect depends on is Venus strong by sign? But it just feels like i knew him before. I dont feel he doesnt love me enough. As a matter of fact it's very difficult to word. And also a lot of Saturn and Neptune going on. This Venus might even feel that there's something magnetic in their partner. His response have a huge impact upon me. iRecently i have met a guy in my office whose north node conjuct my 12th house where is my moon and mars. I also was getting crazy muscle twitches. He also has his natal Sun, Venus and Mercury in his 12th house. Never felt this way in my life. We have other aspects in synastry that are more positive, but the Mars issues come up a lot. Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection). I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). When Im with him its like everything else in the world just melts away. Kinda like that, it can be magical, spiritual, and present us with unconditonal love that wasn't meant to live in this world. SYNASTRY: NORTH AND SOUTH NODE CONNECTIONS. I'm currently talking to someone where my Moon, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter fall into their 12th house. To this some spice adds venus/neptune square. I really like the Leo energy. But what made it all so compelling, is that I REMEMBERED HIM FROM TWO PAST LIVES when we were mates!! Such a mystical house - offers so much yet sometime so little. We have our moons in each others first houses which for my cancer stellium does a lot, and he has mars and venus in my 7th house. Their is so much fear between us. few months later he married her. I would love to here anyone's feedback. Jupiter i Mars is aggressive by nature but the sign and house, and aspects made to him will alter how he plays out in synastry. A recent look at someone else's synastry made me question this placement. My gemini sun, cancer north node are in my 12th. Ironically, your experience sounds much like my own, excepting my 12th Houser turned mean and abusive, even though I was ARMS OPEN to him at all times. Are they always honest to each other when 12 house is involved? Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 A example of how the hidden fears thing of this house works is that we often will have a bad dream about something we are afraid of happening or suppressed anger, and and fear can bring us nightmares. Either come correct or go away. This has been a dormant thread for some time but I couldn't help but post in my 2-bits on a relationship with 12th Venus. This is especially true if that person's Venus is conjunct your ascendant (the more tightly conjunct, the stronger the attraction). I promise you a guy who pursues you is a far, far better fit. Venus in the 8th House Synastry - A Complete Guide - Your Higher Journey This is a very private house, and it holds all of our self conscious fears, most of the time we don't like this house activated especially if this is a person that will use this against us.If the Mars person is selfish and self-serving, he or she may use their knowledge of your bad habits, blind spots and personality weaknesses to manipulate or hurt you. So strange in this 12th house. SYNASTRY: VENUS IN THE HOUSES. We were both unhappily married, I was her manager at work, she was head over heels for me immediately, I didn't even know she liked me for months. Synastry: Planet Overlays in Houses (Transposed Houses) Im all thumbs up, though, for those who do not nave the bad effects of a 12th House synastry. Are Venus Pluto Contacts In Synastry Problematic? The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. And also what are your thoughts on Venus in the 12th composite chart vs the synastry chart? Same here. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had.. Venus In 8th House Synastry: How Rollercoaster Of A Ride Will It Be? Without knowing of his opposite actions that indicate his interest in you, its hard to weigh this and determine what the deal is. where is your Neptune? These are people who souls we touch and theirs ours. Take it like a grain of salt and more of insecurity on their behalf. But Tabitha seems to attract controlling lovers (maybe she has Pluto in her 7th House). i had experience with a guy who have 4 benefic planets in my 12th house. You know how you feel different in a dream but it's very real? My Pluto sextiles his Moon and Venus and opposes his NN. Some are evil and just want to get in your pants. Spirtual, Telepathic, Emotionally, Karmic, & Soulful. Anyone else care to share? JavaScript is disabled. Just not every second. Venus Synastry: 12th House Overlay in Astrology - ASTROFIX His Venus is trine my Mars. He indeed often told me that we do have a strong connection. Should I run now?? And also my Pluto is trine his Venus. He makes me breakdown so many barriers. As a rule, it is generally the house person who feels the energies the most. I dont think I can give a uniform answer as to how planets behave in the other persons 12th house. I would even go so far to say that they may be SPs (sociopaths); these people seem to have a DEVIL deep inside of them . It was a weird sort of dance, attract/ repulse. I also have met two men, 1 in the past and the other one currently that many of my planets fall into their 12th house. Synastry: Venus in the 12th house : r/astrology - reddit Venus in 12th house Synastry - Lindaland - linda-goodman.com The comments here suggest that he could be affected, but I noticed that in these cases the planet person fell into the house person's 12th, but the house person's planets also fell into their intense houses (1st, 7th, 5th, etc).I have north node in his 12th, but nothing else falls into his 12th. Venus in 10th House Synastry - Astrology School You have long-lasting and intense affection for this individual. Im terribly afraid of this 12th house. Maybe its fortuitous that it ended early for you, sweetie. HI, ELSA!! Unrequited Love in the Charts - My Christian Psychic His venus in your 12th, according to what I know, probably means that you're attracted because he brings out hidden parts of you. hes not so emotional with words but he is in action. I am very partnered elsewhere in my life but looked up his chart because he feels like family or someone i knew in a past life or something. He showed me where to go, was a teacher to me, yet he said I was too young for him and that was only thing that in his opinion is stop to a relationship of a serious kind. It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. Now it doesn't happen that often but I can say that as the house person, I'm almost always affected by someone who has Venus in my 12th and if it aspects some of my planets. I've also found when we fought and were out of touch, I could feel how upset and rattled he was when he couldn't reach me. THAT is a swift ender for my 3-placement Leo (read: THE QUEEN) who became TOTALLY OFFENDED by his antics. Very easy. It could be due to different things.. like the planet person is insecure/shy/doesn't wanna show their love in an open way, or just that the house person doesn't "get" the planet person's way of loving. His Mars conjunct my Saturn opposite my Pluto. Hi Sharmeen, I am very sorry, unfortunately 12th house connections can sometimes reflect deceptions, it is the house of hidden things, secrets etc.. Most sources will tell you that the twelfth house overlay is not good for relationships. I know it sounds crazy. It's strange that i always dream about him. NO THANKS!!! Venus Synastry in the Houses PATH-STROLOGY Utilizing Astrology to Find Your Path Home Natal Placements / Aspects Synastry Placements / Aspects Composite Placements / Aspects Planet: Sun Planet: Moon Planet: Mars Planet: Venus Planet: Jupiter Planet: Uranus Planet: Pluto Asteroids + Points Celebrities / The Infamous Past Life Astrology The 12th house Synastry: Love behind the scenes. Hello Everyone,I can relate to alot of the post that I've read. I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" Thats an aspect of a battle between the Mars person & the 12th house person. He was drinking often(neptune) and because of this we had frequent conflicts(square to venus). Your email address will not be published. I feel I just love him unconditionally no matter what, I dream of him a lot, I have fantasies too but I keep this all to myself, a secret. As with all conjunctions, Venus conjunct Pluto synastry can play out in positive and negative scenarios alike.. Venus conjunct Pluto synastry relationships are based on the partners' strong romantic and physical attraction. He might love you but in his own way. Lol. He enjoyed the attention and games for sure and he had a Gemini ruled 12th house. . Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. I have Jupiter sun and mars in his 12th house in cancer and I really hope I didnt hurt him. He understands me in a very deep level. It is sometimes necessary to give people the spacevthey need, even if it hurts. But afflicted venus indicates the negative effects of the venus/ neptune aspects. I feel you, kak.. Im the planet person, in which im the venus, he's the house person. Often, there is a distinct feeling of mistrust in these scenarios, especially on the part of the planet person. As for this guy, hes telling you all you need to know. Although much of the time we find out it's ourself. We are obsessed with eachother. Tense aspects can be difficult to overcome. because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. Pluto in your partners 1st This placement can be very powerful between two people that are attracted to each other in a love relat Jupiter in synastry represents where we will inspire, encourage and instill faith in our partners, and even addthem luck. Hey! The 12th house and Neptune can be very painful, the lingering kind. If he is also your 12th Houser, please know that anything with him will be brief, for the most part, or there will be a series of back-and-forth connections with intervals of his ghosting you for long periods. and in only one instance where the connection has lasted throughout many years with us now being friends, of sorts. My ex and I had our suns in each others 12th. The subconscious is full of stuff that we don't even know about, not consciously anyway but our dreams often show us what's in here. Explore the synastry between you and your partner Composite Chart / Synastry Report Bundle. When I think about it, it makes me sad we aren't together. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. Pisces is the sign without boundaries. Venus in 10th House Personality Traits | Ryan Hart Posts: 15From: united statesRegistered: Jun 2013. Infatuation can't run this deep. One who never had to deal with neptune before would have it very difficult to submerge themselves past the toes dipping. Horoscope, dating, astrology, forecast, relationships | 12andus If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. you just have to separate your spirit from them somehow, as that seems to be the deepest connection between you and them. Hi Aida, very interesting what you say.. Well you know, Neptune rules the 12th house, which is idealization, so in a sense these people will appear to be our ideal! I dont want him anymore as he rejected me but I cant help but stop thinking about him. Last night I went to bed normally and suddenly I could not get him off my mind, I laid there for 4 hours unable to sleep and unable to get my mind off of him and the fight we had had days ago. This is all the 12th house stuff, and why dreams can be healing and why this house can offer us healing. He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. :) Would also love to read about Double Whammies in the 12th if you have any info. A stripping of the egos for sure! There are times I don't trust him - through no actual fault of his own, btw - and others where I just feel loved in the most basic way. He brings my daughter candy and buys her ice cream and toys. I'm very new here so read at your own risk! His Venus is also conjunct my Pluto and we also have Venus square Venus. he is not interested, so I need to move onThe way I found of doing it is trying to understand why this happen. We started off some kind of bizar friendship in where I felt like a teacher towards a child, I always pulling, he always coming towards me, and then everytime when he came, he ran away, literally, like he got burned or something. It's not of this world, it's spiritual and I don't mean you go to church together spiritual but it's certainly possible. I can relate to most that has been said: Psychic, Fated, Spiritual, highly-accepting, Secretive & perhaps in ways obsessional/unrequited. Venus is the planet of love, beauty, romance, values, and finances. I have also experienced it as not wanting anyone to know about the relationship or not knowing where you stand. Friendship Argh Making me suck because I still have high hopes . I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. The love for this man has boosted my spiritual development, mainly though an infinite suffering that has no end Our feelings are mutual (my Venus tightly conjunct his Neptune that can mean that I also boost his spiritual development), but for some karmic reasons we cannot be together. ILLUME ASTROLOGY: The 12th house Synastry: Love behind the scenes - Blogger when i came back there was this weird thing between us. Any planet in the 12th house is aiming for something beyond its grasp. that is my unrecognized trait of doing and having doubles 2 of this, 2 of that 2 of the same clothes articles, 2 of the same type of lifestyles, apartments . Wow . And there is a very strong square between his Mars and my own, which creates a lot of stress between us at times, and his Saturn is square my Venus. How does it affect synastry when one partners personal planets land in the others 12th house? I can confirm that he appears in my dreams often and usually these are precognitive dreams. But I have to work with him and Im afraid he can realize and maybe use this against me. When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! It is strange how much this makes sense: I have my moon in his 12 house and he's got his Neptune in my 12. There is always a lesson and something you will learn and realize that the relationship was fated for some purpose bigger than you origionally thought but not meant to live out in this lifetime. Fatherly type things like that. And it is hard and painful for a physical person like me. Do you guys think it's possible to have a (happy) relationship with this placement?Looks like it always turns sour. SPOOKY!! even when its painful between us this pull makes me want to continue with him so I did not want him to feel my pain yet he could and tried to finish things cos of itbut then we couldnt seem to leave them for more than 3 days anyway, Yep not sure what to call it a relationship, love,, obsession, infatuation, One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. I've noticed a few times I have had this placement with somone I care very deeply about, but for some reason the feelings are never mutual. I keep reading stuff about 12th house and its scary I already have issues but like I said my natal chart is already filled with 12 house placements like sun, mercury, Jupiter, and something else and now my relationship?! You are using an out of date browser. When we met I felt like I had seen him before..we started talking online then decided to meet. But it's OK because we love being around each other. i did not have any dreams of them. The last one who was a crush had his Leo sun in my 12th. More so after 15 years. Mars in 12th house plus all the unease Im feeling is scary and terrifying. From all levels! What's weird to me is that I can't decide if he's intentionally obscuring himself or if it is unintentional based on the nature of his personality. Feel free to elaborate in the comments. Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. ive seen it many times in others too. His Pluto squares my Sun, Moon, Mercury, Saturn and NN. There are two zodiac signs associated with Venus in astrology. I have a very bad experience with someone's mars on my 12th house. Weekend Love Forecast Leo Moon Mood With Some Dramatic STYLE, Full Moon in Virgo: March 7, 2023 Mutable T-Square Distractions, Sign up to be notified when the blog updates. I only noticed it after my 12th-Houser came into my life and affected me deeply that is when my own natal Gemini placement came out in me full and strong. I've never experienced Venus in my 12th house until now, but yup That's what it is like. Every time I talk to him about something, I feel loved and at peace. For someone who may be married to a 12th Houser and are tanking under their emotional and spiritual holds, just try to find ways to LEAVE them, leave the house you share with them, and move far away. 12th house is not the greatest for expression i am afraid. HOWEVER, with that new Gemini in me birthing, I also recognized very deep and troubling things within HIM that were NOT in me (thank the LORD!! The water faucet with no shut off valve, lol. And the worst part is I cant tell if hes going to be my salvation or my greatest self sabotage and final, complete ruination of my life. Neptune idealizes, and makes everything much more beautiful it rules feelings of ecstacy, perfection and the feelings of soulmates but he's a tricky fella once we fall from the high, it's hard to get over.It's not usually til much later we want to slap ourselves when the Neptune fog clears and reality set's in.